Create
Choose what you would like to do, a real public place, and one to three times.
A private date invitation and scheduling tool
Send a Clear Meet Request After Connecting Online
Choose one public place, offer a few times, and share a private invitation through the dating app or messaging service you already use.
Private invitation codePublic-place firstNo account needed to respond
RPrivate invitation
Maya, Alex would like to meet you
Coffee & a walk
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Bryant Park CaféNew York, NY
Choose a time that works
Fri, Aug 217:00 PM
Sat, Aug 223:00 PM
Sun, Aug 236:00 PM
Simple by design
From “we should meet” to a real plan.
Request to Meet handles the scheduling step, so both people can focus on whether the plan feels right.
Share
Copy the private Meet Request link and invitation code into your existing conversation.
Confirm
They choose a time, suggest alternatives, or decline without creating an account.
Why Request to Meet?
Plans should feel easy, not endless.
Request to Meet is not another dating app. It is the missing step between a good conversation and a clear first-date plan.
Use it with any dating app →Less back-and-forth
Offer several real times instead of comparing calendars through an open-ended message thread.
One clear plan
Both people can see the activity, public venue, address, and time options in one place.
Private sharing
Meet details stay behind an unpredictable link and a separate invitation code.
Thoughtful first meetings
Public-place prompts and safety reminders encourage more deliberate planning.
Practical dating guides
Make the next step easier.
Use clear examples and checklists for the moment between an online conversation and a real-life date.
Guide
How to Ask Someone Out
A clear, low-pressure invitation that is easy to answer.
Read the guide →GuideWhen to Meet From a Dating App
Use readiness and comfort instead of a fixed message count.
Read the guide →GuideFirst Date Safety Checklist
Plan the venue, transport, check-in, and personal boundaries.
Read the guide →Stop wondering when to ask.
Make a plan.
Send a Meet Request →Do not have someone to ask yet?
Explore dating options, then come back when you are ready to make a plan.