Common questions
What is Request to Meet?
A lightweight tool for arranging a real-life meeting with someone you already know online.
Is Request to Meet a dating app?
No. RTM does not match people, host profiles, or provide chat.
Do I need an account?
Creators need a free account. Recipients can view and respond without one.
Does the person I invite need an account?
No. They only need the private link and invitation code.
Why do requests use an invitation code?
The code adds a second privacy check before any meet details appear.
Can I offer more than one time?
Yes, offer one to three times.
What if none of the times work?
The recipient can suggest one to three alternatives for the creator to choose.
Can I cancel a Meet Request?
Yes, active requests can be cancelled from My Meet Requests.
Can I change the location?
Create a new request if the location needs to change, keeping each invitation unambiguous.
Is Request to Meet free?
The first version is free to use.
Can I share my meet details with a friend?
Yes, confirmed meets include a safety-sharing action.
What happens when a request expires?
Unanswered requests expire after 30 days and can no longer be accepted.
Can someone find my request on Google?
No. Private request pages are excluded from indexing and sitemaps.
How do I report an inappropriate request?
Open the request, enter the code, and choose Report this Meet Request at the bottom.