Create
Choose an activity, a real public place, and one to three times.
Request to Meet works with any dating app.
Keep your conversation where it is. When you are ready to meet, create one clear invitation and share its private link and code.
From a match to a real plan
RTM does not replace a dating app or move your conversation into another inbox. It handles one specific step: choosing a public place, offering a few times, and letting the other person respond.
Use it after connecting on
Share a Meet Request through the chat or messaging service you already use.
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These are just a few examples. Request to Meet works independently, so the same private invitation can be shared through any other dating site, dating app, social platform, or messaging service.
Share
Paste the private link and invitation code into your existing conversation.
Confirm
They can choose a time, suggest another time, or decline without creating an account.
From online conversation to a first date
Use the guide that matches your next step.
Already talking to someone?
Send a Meet Request →Make the next step clear.
Send a thoughtful plan instead of another vague “sometime?” message.